Mourning Mary Oliver in 100,000+ Tweets
I saw her lift her honeyed muzzle
into the leaves, and her thick arms,
as though she would fly -
an enormous bee
all sweetness and wings -
-Mary Oliver, “Happiness”
Last month on my birthday, my boyfriend’s mom sent me a handwritten Mary Oliver poem in the mail. The poem, called “Happiness,” is about a she-bear getting a little bit drunk on honey. It was a lovely gift in every way.
I’m obsessed with how people share literature with one another, whether it’s through handwritten notes, or well-worn library books, or tweets. So when Mary Oliver died on Thursday, I was sad but also blown away by how many people were mourning her life by sharing her words on social media.
When I checked Twitter, I found an outpouring of Oliver’s poetry. Friends, colleagues, celebrities, and strangers were tweeting favorite quotations, pictures of dog-eared pages, and videos of themselves reciting her words. This free-flowing, social circulation seemed like a fitting tribute to a poet whose work has for so long been dedicated to and beloved by a wide public.
“When it's over, I want to say all my life I was a bride married to amazement.” Mary Oliver
— Oprah Winfrey (@Oprah) January 17, 2019
I’ve been soothed, comforted, informed, enhanced by your words. Your life has been a Blessing to the world. #maryoliver
I decided to start archiving tweets that mentioned Mary Oliver’s name early Thursday afternoon. To do so, I used DocNow’s awesome archiving tool, twarc. Within the last few days, over 100,000 tweets and retweets from 78,000+ users in 38 different languages have acknowledged Mary Oliver. Here’s a breakdown of the archive so far:
Tweets Collected: 117,055
Users: 78,093
Languages: 38
Tweets with Images: 21,401 (18.28%)
Type of Tweets: 87,856 retweets (75%), 20,126 original (17%), 7,274 quotes (6%), 1,799 replies (2%)
Earliest Tweet: 12:20PM (CST) 01-17-2019
Latest Tweet: 9:15AM (CST) 01-19-2019
Total Duration of Archive: 1 day, 21 hours
I’ve shared the tweet ids for this Mary Oliver archive on my GitHub page, so if you’d like to analyze the data yourself, you just have to “rehydrate” the ids. You can do so with twarc or with the desktop application, Hydrator (and the 💦💦💦 process is explained on both of those pages). I plan to keep the livestream capture going for the next couple weeks, and I will update the archive accordingly.
But for now I wanted to share an overview of these 100,000+ Mary Oliver tweets, including the most retweeted tweets, the most common phrases used, the top images, and the biggest celebrity shout-outs:
Top 10 Most Retweeted
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Thank you, Mary Oliver, for giving so many of us words to live by.
— Hillary Clinton (@HillaryClinton) January 17, 2019
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?" -
The Uses of Sorrow
— Sarah Kay (@kaysarahsera) January 17, 2019
by Mary Oliver
(In my sleep I dreamed this poem)
Someone I loved once gave me
a box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand
that this, too, was a gift. -
“Doesn’t everything die at last, and too soon?”
— Rachel Mennies (@rmennies) January 17, 2019
Mary Oliver: pic.twitter.com/KumCX5vfL6 -
RIP Mary Oliver, your words will live on pic.twitter.com/WEZ3KtLvoq
— rachel syme (@rachsyme) January 17, 2019 -
Snow was falling, so much like stars filling the dark trees.
— ADF (@AlinaDal_F) January 30, 2017
Mary Oliver pic.twitter.com/glSQ4vLWJG -
"Poetry isn't a profession, it's a way of life. It's an empty basket; you put your life into it and make something out of that."
— Literary Hub (@lithub) January 17, 2019
RIP Mary Oliver, filler of baskets. pic.twitter.com/TmyzPOCjyf -
The poet Mary Oliver died today. Her poetry spoke — with a calm & tender lucidity — of commonalities that joined human hearts to the more-than-human world. pic.twitter.com/X0CaDwb1Hr
— Robert Macfarlane (@RobGMacfarlane) January 17, 2019 -
Mary Oliver was my favorite poet. Heartbroken to learn of her death. Grateful she gave us what she did with her one wild and precious life. pic.twitter.com/3GJhVAbtMP
— Misha Collins (@mishacollins) January 17, 2019 -
JUST IN: Poet Mary Oliver has died at 83. Oliver won the Pulitzer Prize and the National Book Award for poems about nature and animals which made her one of this country’s best-selling poets. To be understood, poetry "mustn't be fancy," she once told NPR.https://t.co/tEUiwq4pck
— NPR (@NPR) January 17, 2019 -
“It doesn’t have to be blue iris, it can be weeds in a vacant lot.
— Ava DuVernay (@ava) January 17, 2019
Just pay attention, then patch a few words together and don’t try to make them elaborate.
This isn’t a contest but the doorway into thanks. A silence in which another voice may speak.”
- Mary Oliver, Praying pic.twitter.com/SHh1EYdU6T
These top tweets all quote Oliver’s poetry or words in some way. They cite the poems “Wild Geese”, “The Summer Day”, “The Uses of Sorrow”, “Praying”, and “Snowy Night”, as well as two famous quips about poetry itself: that it “isn’t a profession” and that it “mustn’t be fancy.” I used key phrases from these 10 quotations—e.g., “one wild and precious life,” “box full of darkness,” “wild geese”—to see how often these same poems/words were cited:
The above chart does not represent all citations of Oliver’s words, just the specific phrases/poems that I searched for. Most other tweets in the corpus (95,598 tweets) were not included or identified here.
Most Common Phrases Used
I also searched for the most common recurring phrases, which again resurfaced quotations from “The Summer Day,” “Wild Geese,” and “The Uses of Sorrow.” But this search also turned up other widely-cited quotations, such as “To live in this world/you must be able/to do three things” from “In Blackwater Woods”.
- “what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life”
- “someone i loved once gave me a box full of darkness”
- “thank you mary oliver for giving so many of us words to live by”
- “(in my sleep i dreamed this poem)”
- “to live in this world you must be able to do three things”
- “doesn’t everything die at last, and too soon”
- “pay attention be astonished tell about it”
- “i was a bride married to amazement”
- “the poet mary oliver died”
- “no matter how lonely you are the world offers itself to your imagination”
To live in this world
— Jen Benka (@jenbenka) January 17, 2019
you must be able
to do three things:
to love what is mortal;
to hold it
against your bones knowing
your own life depends on it;
and, when the time comes to let it go,
to let it go.
—Mary Oliver, RIPhttps://t.co/gnyMu3Jocw
Pay attention.
— Alice Anderson (@AlicePoet) January 17, 2019
Be astonished.
Tell about it.
—Mary Oliver pic.twitter.com/H3yYlWwqdy
Top Images (click to enlarge):
To look for Oliver’s poetry only within the text of tweets misses one of the major ways that her words were shared: images and videos. The following shows the top images from Mary Oliver tweets, all pictures of text except for one snap of the actor Misha Collins, who is an apparent Oliver disciple and otherwise most famous for his role on the television show Supernatural.
Top Twitter Celeb Shout-outs
Speaking of actors who adore Mary Oliver, the following shows the individuals with the most Twitter followers who mentioned her name in the last few days (in order of most to least followers):
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“When it's over, I want to say all my life I was a bride married to amazement.” Mary Oliver
— Oprah Winfrey (@Oprah) January 17, 2019
I’ve been soothed, comforted, informed, enhanced by your words. Your life has been a Blessing to the world. #maryoliver -
To all of my kindred spirits who dare to dream and create 💗🙏🏽💗 #maryoliver had such a beautiful way of telling the truth of a full and meaningful life through her poetry✨#ripmaryoliver https://t.co/ScA2UTIcGj
— Jessica Alba (@jessicaalba) January 19, 2019 -
Patron saint of the lost but brave ... #MaryOliver pic.twitter.com/O8zMq8rEOJ
— Lena Dunham (@lenadunham) January 17, 2019 -
“I made a world out of words. And it was my salvation.” RIP Mary Oliver. pic.twitter.com/TneWooytLO
— AJ (@TheAJMendez) January 18, 2019 -
R.I.P. poet Mary Oliver:: “Instructions for living a life. Pay attention. Be astonished. Tell about it.” pic.twitter.com/KieSs46WuV
— RainnWilson (@rainnwilson) January 18, 2019 -
My love knows me and today is a sad day...saying goodbye to #maryoliver...rest in peace and thank you for your legacy.
— Sara Bareilles (@SaraBareilles) January 18, 2019
Her words bring light into every room in which they whisper....🎆 https://t.co/8PRfRS6pn7 -
Thinking of Mary Oliver today. What will you do with your one wild & precious life? pic.twitter.com/UXYytu1Uyq
— Misha Collins (@mishacollins) January 17, 2019 -
Oh Mary Oliver, how can we ever say a deep enough thank you? Dear God, please bless her soul. May her words continue to inspire us, and may all of us walk in her footsteps.https://t.co/k6D1M8Ataq
— Marianne Williamson (@marwilliamson) January 17, 2019 -
Thank you Mary Oliver for your beautiful healing work. Forever grateful. RIP #wildgeese
— Miranda Hart (@mermhart) January 17, 2019 -
I Raise A Glass and Shed a tear to the passing of one of my favorite poets...........Mary Oliver. Her words were a bridge from Nature to the Spiritual World................♥️ God Bless You Mary! pic.twitter.com/loT4siZqdO
— Madonna (@Madonna) January 17, 2019
Mourning Mary Oliver—Screenshots, Selfies, Snail Mail
This post only scratches the surface of how folks mourned Mary Oliver on Twitter in the wake of her death. But it’s been my small way of fulfilling Oliver’s edict: to pay attention, to be astonished, to tell about it.
I’m telling you that I’m astonished to see tens of thousands of Twitter users sharing poetry with each other in the span of two days. Here’s to sharing more poetry with one another—and, of course, to Mary Oliver.
If you’re interested in exploring this archive for yourself, you can download the data by using the tweet ids on my GitHub page.
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